Childhood The Non Squeaky Wheel - 948 Words

Childhood: Growing up in a family that was ripe with mental illness lent me an unique perspective on the idea of social norms that allowed me the personal freedom to explore life to the very limits of my morality. I am born to a long and prestigious line of mental illness and diagnoses. By age 5 I knew good and well what it meant when my mother would say â€Å"we don’t know where Grandma (bipolar) is and we don’t know when she will come back, but Grandpa brought presents!† By age 9 I was aware that my only sibling was bipolar and it would run our house, that is, when my father’s chronic depression wasn’t. My maternal uncle was bipolar and hung himself at 23. My maternal aunt’s agoraphobia kept us as strangers until I was 12. Therapy was a staple of life; everyone had therapists, everyone but me. I was the â€Å"easy† kid, the non-squeaky-wheel. I married young (20 years old) and became a military wife. Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Dyslexia and severe pornography addiction dismantled my marriage in a short order. Therapy, family, clergy, pride, and sheer will could not hold my ill-advised marriage together. In 2009 we separated and divorced. I was 26 years old and unsure of whom I was or wanted to be. All I knew was that I had failed at being a wife, failed in my career (making $14 per hour), and failed in school (my summer off before starting college had turned into seven years). The only thing that I had succeeded in was gaining 60 pounds in five years! SeveralShow MoreRelatedComparison of American and Vietnamese Culture2261 Words   |  10 Pagesavenues for acquiring a good name†¦acts of heroism, intellectual skill, or exhibition of moral virtues (i.e. â€Å"honor,’ â€Å"generosity,† and â€Å"honesty†). The preferred Vietnamese personality involves being one of moderate speech. 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